Spanking is one of the most divisive sex acts out there: some people think it's incredibly sexy, while others find it degrading and painful. “I’m not comfortable with you hitting me like that.” Ron, bless his heart, was incredibly apologetic, and we spent the next ten minutes discussing each other’s boundaries when it came to spanking. “OK - that was a little hard,” I told him. I pulled on a robe and went back into the bedroom, where Ron was sitting, looking horrified. There, on my butt, was a perfectly raised welt in the exact shape of his hand. I told him to stop, which he did immediately, and I got out of bed and checked myself in the mirror. I was immediately taken out of the moment.
One day, we were having sex when I felt a searing pain on my left butt cheek. Ron and I had been dating for a few months, and we had a pretty good sex life.
Two years ago, I was in a relationship with a man we’ll call Ron.
